It used to drive me crazy when people would say "you have to love yourself before you can love someone else" Easy to say, but how do you go about loving yourself? Talk in the mirror? Treat yourself well? Eat Well? Treating others as you would be treated? Or is it something deeper?
Loving yourself is really about a connection to God/Universe/Higher Self (or however you like to refer to a higher power that is within you.) Once you find a way to connect with the perfect